Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week we hear from Elodie*, a 30-year-old straight woman, who is single and living in North London.
When she’s in a relationship, Elodie aims to have sex once or twice a week but when she’s unattached, it’s considerably less.
‘I consider myself confident in the bedroom and I really enjoy having sex,’ she says. ‘I’m happy to be myself and tell partners what I want.
‘However, I’d like my sex life to be more exciting – there are so many different experiences I want to explore now, especially while I’m sin...


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