‘Why don’t we have sex?’, I asked, bluntly.
I was sitting in bed in front of my recent hook-up, Jaz*, after spending the night at his for the third time. We had been orally intimate, again – but there was something missing.
I felt strange asking, having just had my fourth orgasm of the night.
But it was bugging me – as was his reaction to my question.
Because Jaz had just frowned slightly and looked away.
‘Why aren’t you f***ing me?’, I blurted out in his silence.
‘I can’t’, he blurted back.
I was shocked into silence. But after a moment, it dawned on me – I had never seen him erect.
He couldn’t get an erection.


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