I hid my drinking from my police colleagues and family for years due to a secret shame

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A fear of judgement kept Nisha silent for years (Picture: Supplied)

Police Detective Nisha Chandra became an expert at hiding alcohol. Cider was camouflaged in juice bottles. Gin masqueraded as water. However, the biggest underlying challenge wasn’t in concealing her 10-year addiction from strangers – it was from the people closest to her. 

Growing up in a South Asian household, one Punjabi phrase shaped almost everything for Nisha: “Lok ko kehn ge?” – “What will people say?” A fear of judgement echoed throughout her family and community, which kept her silent for years.

‘Within our culture, people’s opinions matter more than what you’re going through’, she tells Metro.

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