As both a mum and a therapist, I’ve seen it all. I’ve been on the receiving end of eye-rolls, sarcastic remarks, and shouting (my own child has ADHD). I’ve also supported parent clients whose children have lashed out physically.
And let me tell you, the shame that comes with it can feel almost as overwhelming as the behaviour itself.
It’s something I’m sure some parents reading this have experienced, as well as those judgemental and even worried looks or comments from other adults.
But you are not a bad parent, and these are not bad kids.
Rudeness and ADHD (as well as other neurodivergent profiles) often go hand-in-hand. It is not a reflection of your child’s character, nor of your parenting.
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