My boyfriend has erectile dysfunction — he says a threesome will fix it

This week’s diarist is hoping for a change to her sex life (Picture: Myles Goode)

Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.

This week we hear from Eliana, a 36-year-old queer writer who lives with her boyfriend of nine years, Kyle*.

The pair met as extras on a TV show (he was a police officer and she was a sex worker) have sex about once a week. However, she’s not feeling satisfied.

‘Kyle has erectile dysfunction,’ says Eliana. ‘He can get off on his own, but when I’m around, that’s when the problems start.

‘It makes me feel like I’m not enough, and I feel awful saying it, but I want more.

‘I want more sex with...