Confiding in a friend of mine after I was first diagnosed with ADHD, I opened up to her about my lifelong struggles with time blindness, lateness, general disorganisation, and emotional dysregulation.
I was relieved to finally have a label for what I’d been experiencing.
‘But isn’t it normal to get a little bit distracted sometimes? I probably have ADHD too, if that’s the case’ she said to me.
My heart sank, feeling both rejected and my experiences diminished in one simple interaction. I doubt she meant to upset me, but her...


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